Be in the know

• Excited about going to chapter meetings
• Communicating positive messages instead of those indicating being scared, intimidated, or stressed
• Feeling that the chapter communicates a message that academics come first
• Being held accountable for actions and appropriate behavior 
• Learning new things about herself through her Tri Sigma experiences 
• Developing leadership and personal development skills 
• Serving her local and campus community 
• Supported by the members and new members in her chapter

• Attend Family weekend
• Pay your daughter’s lifetime dues as graduation gift
• Consider looking at the merchandise page or contributing to the Foundation in honor of your daughter’s initiation
• See if the chapter or House Corporation has a Parents Club (or consider starting one)
• Attend their Founder’s Day events
• Make a contribution to their Philanthropic events
• Ask questions about recruitment, big sister, weekly meetings, and upcoming events 
• Learn about other opportunities by getting in touch with the President, Chapter Advisor, or the House Corporation. New members should receive this information in the form of a contact list. There may also be a parents newsletter you can request to receive.

• Not having enough time to study
• Does not feel included or supported by the chapter
• Tri Sigma programming every night of the week and it is going past 10pm/11pm
• Grades are slipping a lot 
• Acting strange or secretive about chapter programming 
• Cannot be reached easily as a new member (especially close to initiation) 
• Having to drink excessive amounts or run errands for members 

• Chapter Advisor
• House Corporation President (if the chapter has a house)
• Campus Fraternity/Sorority Advisor 
• Chapter President 
• Your daughter’s Big Sister